What do you think about my situation? (This is a good question for all you armchair...?

can't make a decision right now. When you are actually separated, that should give her the answer as to whether she wants it that way or wants to reconcile. Maybe you could have date nights and rediscover what it was that attracted you to each other. Either way, you can't go on living in limbo forever. It's unfair to you. Perhaps in living apart for a while, you will decide to get on with your life. I think the separation will decide things one way or another.